About Me

I’m really glad you’re here. Truly.

I’m Freya. Or at least, that’s the name I use here. Freya is a pseudonym, chosen to keep a little part of my life private while still allowing me to write honestly.

I’m a writer, eclectic witch, empath with a dark edge, and a forever student of life. I live somewhere over the rainbow, in a tiny village in the middle of nowhere, somewhere in a Scandinavian country, which suits me far more than I ever expected.

I share my life with a dog who very much runs the house and keeps me grounded when the world feels too loud (which is always).

This blog is my digital sanctuary. A space where I can be honest, curious, messy, thoughtful, and real. A place to share the things I love, the things I learn, and the parts of life that shape me without shrinking myself.

I live with chronic pain and my own mental health struggles, experiences that have deeply influenced the way I see the world. I consider myself a mental health advocate, though I am not a licensed mental health professional and would never pretend to be one. I simply love educating myself, understanding the mind, and sharing what I learn in the hope that it may help someone navigating struggles similar to my own.

I am deeply drawn to psychology and self-education. I believe that understanding our minds, our patterns, and our wounds can help us live with more compassion, for ourselves and for others. What I learn, I share through honest reflections, lived experiences, and observations.

I have rebuilt myself more times than I can count, and I write from that place. From lived experience, with all its mess, lessons, setbacks, and small victories intact. Some days are heavier than others, and I do not always practise what I write about perfectly. I keep showing up, learning, and trying. This space is not about perfection. It is about persistence.

I practise Eclectic Witchcraft, with a strong pull toward green and kitchen magic.
Nature keeps me sane. Plants are my allies, herbs are my teachers, and the turning of the seasons helps quiet my mind when it spins too fast.

Wisteria Witch is a little bit of everything, with a hint of magic woven through it. Here I share my craft, thoughts on mental health and healing, recipes because I absolutely love cooking, creative projects, spirituality, nature, and whatever else sparks my curiosity. I have never been particularly good at fitting into one box, so I decided my blog does not have to either.

I have been blogging since the early 2000s, back when the internet was full of pixel gifs and chaotic layouts. I have never loved being on camera, but writing has always been my way of making sense of the world. It is how I process, heal, remember, and connect.

So if you are here for witchy thoughts, emotional honesty, mental health, recipes, creativity, or simply a space that feels human and real, I am glad you found your way here. Maybe you needed it.

Thank you for being here. It means more than you know.

Blessed be ♡

🌙 Fun and Fiercely Honest Facts About Me

Sun in Pisces, Ascendant in Aries ♓🔥

Favorite chakra: Sacral chakra

Favorite colors: Pink, purple, black, and gray

I’m an empath

Favorite ice cream flavor: Peppermint

I have many tattoos, including a full wolf sleeve. The wolf is my spirit animal 🐺

When I astral travel, I wander through an enchanted forest of wisteria trees beneath blue skies, surrounded by gentle woodland animals

Favorite gemstones: Amethyst and Tiger Eye

Lifelong bookworm and a huge Stephen King fan 📚

I love horror movies and horror games. Apparently, being stressed in real life isn’t enough 😂

I speak five languages

I didn’t learn to ride a bike until I was 8 or 9 because I was terrified. Thanks, Dad. Miss you ❤️

My personality type is Architect, INTJ A / INTJ T

I’m a deep introvert. I open up once I trust you, but I need quiet time to recharge after socializing

I don’t like Nutella. Yes, I’ve been informed this is controversial

I own 40+ plants. My living room is basically a jungle 🌿

I’m always reading and love expanding my vocabulary

Indecisiveness drives me absolutely nuts 😅

I strive to live in the moment and become a better version of myself every day

I spend way too much money on books and video games. Do I regret it? No.

I absolutely believe in extraterrestrial life 👽

I’m extremely grumpy in the morning. Please allow one coffee before attempting human interaction ☕

I adore coloring books

I’m a podcast lover, and I’d love to start my own someday. I have the ideas, the opinions, and the stories. The only thing standing in my way is me being extremely shy

I’m a conflict avoider, but I won’t stay silent when something crosses my boundaries

I share my home with a very fluffy dog who firmly believes she is in charge and a loving boyfriend who has been by my side for many years. He is my home, my safe haven, and the person with whom everything simply comes naturally ❤️

I disappear to recharge. Don’t take it personally

The smell of rain and wet earth instantly calms me

I have playlists for every mood, and they can completely define my day 🎧

I don’t tolerate disrespect. I will call you out on it

I’m kind, but I’m not naive

I see through bullshit faster than people expect

I love long drives with good music and no reason to rush

I attach memories to songs, smells, places, and the most random objects

I’m extremely sentimental. I remember tiny details about the people I love

I would rather have a deep conversation at 2 AM than make small talk at 2 PM

I love cooking

I have a habit of thinking, “I can probably make that myself,” and accidentally starting another DIY project, along with the ten others still waiting to be finished 😂 I collect hobbies like they’re limited edition

I start creative projects with the confidence of someone who absolutely has enough time to finish all of them

I can spend hours researching something completely random because one tiny question entered my brain

I love learning new things. If I don’t know how to do something, my first instinct is to teach myself

I can listen to the same song fifty times until my brain finally releases it from captivity

I love decorating and will move something three centimeters because it “doesn’t feel right”

I remember dates and little moments because they matter to me

I’m ridiculously romantic. I believe the small things are often the most important

I love giving thoughtful gifts. Buying something generic physically pains me 😂

I love nature deeply, but I also love being home. I’ll happily wander through a forest, admire the trees, breathe in the fresh air… and then decide I’ve socialized enough with the outdoors. 🌿😂

I swear a lot. Consider this your gentle fucking warning

I have an alarming amount of confidence in my ability to figure things out. Do I know how to do it? Probably not. Will I research it obsessively until I do? Absolutely.

I don’t care how much a piece of furniture costs or what name is on the label. If I find it cute and it makes my home feel cozy, warm, and like me, that’s what matters. A home should have personality, not a price tag.

I believe witchcraft is both a sacred practice and a joyful one. Serious when needed, playful whenever possible

I feel most at peace surrounded by nature, music, and moonlight

I believe herbs are wise old friends that speak in their own language if you listen closely

I’m always learning something new. Psychology, witchcraft, writing, self-love, DIY projects, and whatever rabbit hole has captured my attention that week

I believe in rewilding ourselves. Unlearning what dimmed our light and returning to who we were before the world told us who to be

Writing is one of the ways I make sense of the world. Sometimes the words know what I’m feeling before I do

My intuition has a habit of whispering first and saying, “I fucking told you so,” later

I believe healing is messy, deeply personal, and rarely follows a straight path

I find magic in ordinary things. Fresh coffee, rain against the window, herbs in the kitchen, a favorite song, and quiet mornings after I’ve had caffeine 😂

I’m a guardian of emotional safety, for myself and anyone who needs a soft place to land

I have a soft spot for folklore, old traditions, mysteries, and anything with a slightly haunted history

If I were tarot cards, I’d somehow be The High Priestess, the Queen of Wands, and The Hermit. The High Priestess for my intuition, spirituality, and need to understand everything hidden beneath the surface. The Queen of Wands for my passion, creativity, fierce loyalty, and stubborn fire. And The Hermit because I regularly disappear into my cozy little cave to recharge, overthink my entire existence, and enjoy my own company a little too much.

I cast a blessing spell on this blog so that every visitor finds a little magic, charm, or healing in their scroll 🌙